Is failing actually winning?
When you feel you are failing, consider that perhaps you are actually winning.
The western world seems to be dominated by the belief that we have to be in total control and let the ego drive the bus. We believe if our life is failing it means we are failing.
This could not be further from the truth.
Have you ever considered that what you perceive as failing could actually be you winning?
We feel obligated to suffer with dis-ease, loss and hardship. This is far from an obligation or invitation to suffer, this is an opportunity to expand and grow as a soul.
There is this invisible will or destiny that drives us through life, it can either show itself in a series of mishaps until you decide to look at situations that this invisible force this trying to show you and address them. Or you can surrender and start to shift your perception from always being the victim to being the hero. The hero follows the magic breadcrumbs to learn and grow and expand.
This, my friends, is what a conscious awakening can do for you. The only caveat is, you need to be all in as a willing participant otherwise the same-old, same-old will continue to unfold for you.